Anonymous asked:Hmm well our group of friends is pretty big and, like most, some people are closer than others. So I don't know if we're just getting closer or if it's more than that. But yeah, I've known him for about 4 years and liked him for 2. He's really sweet, sometimes even in a cliché way. He doesn't take life too seriously and always jokes around. The other day he carried me like a princess and spun me around which ngl was pretty great (: haha idk what else I can tell you
He sounds like a pretty cool guy, almost as cool as me ;P
and honestly, you probably don’t need to tell me anything more, or anything at all, I just appreciate the chance I have to respond to these :3
And wow you’ve liked him for two years!
Do you think he knows you like him already?
Have you ever given him a sign that you do over the past 2 years you’ve had feelings for him?
Because if you have, maybe he’s already picked up on it, or if he hasn’t, then maybe he’s stupid ;P
Feelings are very frustrating sometimes right? and fear, that’s frustrating..
And communication.. and a bunch of things, sorry :3
Have you ever tried looking at your friendship with him from his perspective?
Like how do you think he perceives you in his life?
Cuz if he is some sort of flirty casanova, do you think he see’s you as just another girl? Not trying to put that idea in your head, but i don’t know this guy at all… or you for that matter, describe you ;P
And well depending on how much you think he’s worth it, I encourage you to figure out how much of yourself you want to invest in him and your possibility with him.
If he is worth it, then why not chase it?
If you see him everyday and the guy you have feelings for is right in front of you, why not take a chance? What’s the worst that could happen?
The worst thing there is rejection, but the reward is much greater than the risk anyway! And you could be killing yourself on the inside knowing you’re so close to having what you want but you’re too afraid to grab it!
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.”
People were made to live and chase their dreams and take risks and chances in their lives! take a chance on him if you think he’s what you want. and if he isn’t then oh well, you learned from the experience and grew from it. Try to live with no regrets, and when the time is right, go for it! :)
Thanks for talking to me :) tell me how it goes, or when it happens, or u don’t have to :P But thanks! Adios!